Why Is School Becoming a Source of Anxiety for Autistic Children?

Autistic children are increasingly absent from school, not by choice, but because this environment can generate deep anxiety. In England, one in eighteen autistic children misses half of their classes—a figure that has nearly tripled since 2017. This situation is also observed in other countries such as Australia or the United States, where students with disabilities are more affected by chronic absenteeism. School, often perceived as a place of learning and socialization, becomes for them a source of stress, isolation, and sometimes even suicidal thoughts.

This anxiety does not arise from a trait inherent to autism, but from the expectations and school norms designed for neurotypical children. Implicit rules, complex social interactions, or overwhelming sensory environments create obstacles that are difficult to overcome. For example, the noise in the hallways, unexpected schedule changes, or the pressure of evaluations can trigger intense distress. Academic and social expectations, such as participating in group work or meeting tight deadlines, add an extra layer of stress. Autistic children often have to mask their difficulties to fit in, which worsens their anxiety and depletes their emotional resources.

Relationships with other students also play a key role. Fear of judgment, mockery, or social exclusion are common realities, especially when their differences are misunderstood. Some even avoid spaces dedicated to their support for fear of being stigmatized. Teachers, although often well-meaning, sometimes lack training to recognize and respond to their specific needs. As a result, their signs of distress are sometimes mistakenly interpreted as provocation or refusal, rather than a cry for help.

Current solutions often focus on individual interventions, such as therapies or punishments for absenteeism, without questioning the school system itself. Yet, it is the school framework that must evolve. Simple accommodations, such as quiet spaces, predictable schedules, or better peer awareness, could reduce this anxiety. Involving autistic children and their families in discussions about these adaptations is essential to create an environment where everyone can learn without suffering.

School-related anxiety in autistic children is not inevitable. It primarily reflects a system that struggles to adapt to the diversity of thought and functioning. Recognizing this reality is the first step toward more inclusive schools, where every student feels safe and respected in their differences.

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DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s12310-026-09852-8

Title: School Anxiety Experienced by Autistic Children: A Systematic Review of Contributing Factors

Journal: School Mental Health

Publisher: Springer Science and Business Media LLC

Authors: Emmie Fisher; Priyanka Rob; Keren MacLennan; Sinéad Mullally; Jacqui Rodgers; Effy Tzemou